We all are unique in our own way. Sometimes, just with mere judgements of others regarding our personality we went into depression or don’t like ourselves because others don’t accept us. We’re so much afraid of rejection from others that we reject ourselves too as a person.
Most of our life we follow others and their views. We really don’t try or follow our life with our views as we live in a fear of rejection or being wrong that we stop living our dreams and just following others.
1. Put your views about everything whichever you like no matter what at the end if it’s wrong also even then it’s means that you’re doing something not just following only.
2. Don’t driven by thoughts of others because of societal pressure or stigmas unless you really respect it. It takes great effort to say no to things which are not meant for you or you don’t like it but at the end it’s just your preference of saying no to something not of disrespecting something as there’s a thin line between being disrespectful or saying no to something.
3. Don’t get swayed by herd mentality gain knowledge and apply it in your decisions, listen to everyone then decide what to do don’t just follow.
4. There’s a thin line between disrespecting something and following your dreams or mind. Follow what you feel is the basic right of human and saying it in a disrespectful way is the other thing. You can follow your heart but do take brain by respecting other’s view also by saying no in a polite manner or when there’s a situation to choose between the two choose what you want to follow as when you’re happy from inside then only you can make other’s happy and don’t keep grudges or any evil for the person. But, in case you’re wrong with your decision at the end then take responsibility for it and don’t blame others. With decision making comes a great responsibility too.
Follow your heart but take your mind too….. As life is too short to follow others and keep regrets.